People are like Lego Blocks

People are like lego blocks.  Each person only has a limited number of connections that they can really sustain in their lives.  A standard piece might have 6 close friendships in its life, but then there are those really long and skinny pieces that can maintain 10, or the short ones that only have space for 2.
Over time, our connections fill up and we simply don’t have room for any more friendships in our lives.  When a new person joins our community they find a lot of friendly faces, but they might find it very difficult to make friends.  It’s not our fault, all our connections are taken.
The hard fact is that for our Church to grow, newcomers need to make friends, not just find people ‘friendly’.  This might require the multiplying of congregations or bible study groups, or even the easing of long-held friendships, to open up our connections to others.  This is a painful but necessary process if we are truly intent on sharing the great gospel of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ and growing his Kingdom.
You might not have made a new friend for a while, so this might be a little scary, but start simple and invite them over for lunch – find out what interests them and see where it goes.
Most of all, think about how you can place Jesus at the centre, we’re not a social club – we’re God’s people.  Why not offer to pray at the end of an evening meal discussion?  Or read the Bible when you meet to catch up?  Let’s not limit ourselves to being ‘friendly’, let’s be friends!
Being a welcoming Church is not just about who’s on the roster at the door – it’s about setting a culture of welcoming newcomers, seeking to build them up in Christ and incorporate them into our family.  It’s our responsibility – all of us.